ever try surprising someone but they figure it out and make it blatantly clear that they know what's going on and completely take all the fun out of it? even if some things got slipped, why would you tell the supriser(s) before the event? it's like "hey...i know you probably worked really hard at trying to make this a great thing for me, but i'm gonna tell you that i know to prove that i guessed and i guessed right cuz i love being right". ugh. this is stupid. i suppose i just don't understand why you wouldn't keep it to yourself and turn the surprise around later? does that make sense? anyhow..i guess it's just disappointing when you don't get the reaction you were hoping for...